@Babs Hunt , yes I have to agree I like the colour of that new front door. I think it's good that you know roughly when you'll get new neighbours and are you still thinking of building the new fence? yep for sure you deserve a good day today after all the stress of yesterday...enjoy your lunch and your warmer weather I wish it would warm up here...
We won't build the new fence...our Landlord will or our ex Landlord who lives in the Cottage next to us.
I like that color for clothes and jewelry because I look good in it but that color door in my neighborhood would stick out like a sore thumb. And that would bother my OCD. That's why I can't stand to see anything out of place in my house. My poor ex always put the mail on the counter and left it there...it bothered the heck out of me. That's why it's best I live alone.
Naw. You could find a guy that you really, really get along with. But, you have to look. That's what I did and it sure worked out for me and can for anyone.
It's not easy finding someone who is just like me, while I had no problem with my husband's differences it seems I can't deal with men I meet now that are different. Don't know why...maybe I'm older...had more patience then. Set in my ways and so are the men.
Understandable. I sure knew what I was looking for when I placed my Personal Ad in a local magazine and my wife answered it. I never-ever thought I'd meet a lady like her in So California, but did. Absolutely couldn't believe how well she fit into the rodeo scene. I was pretty much shocked.
It's not so much about what they like to do or what hobbies they have but more about personal habits that bug me. I'm just used to having my space exactly how I like it.
Not sure, ladies, about this "couldn't get use to" or is it more "absolutely don't want to"? Either way is fine, if that is what you both want, which appears just that. There are men and women out there, especially at our age and some younger that never-ever want someone new in their life after a divorce or death. That is understandable, but on the other side of that coin, it is nice to have someone to do things with. I hated, with a passion, being single/divorced. I was able to take care of myself, but really, really wanted a wife. Yes, a "wife", because I was totally "marriage minded" and got really lucky in that "marriage minded" was exactly the way my wife felt. She was so happy when she found out the interests I had and I didn't even put in my Personal Ad that I had been a Square Dancer for a number of years. She looked like a "happy Snoopy" when she found that out. It took me 21 years to find her. 21 years of dating the wrong ladies. When I met her and seen her in her Western attire, I thought, "it's about dang time" (LOL). I do know one thing, I seriously, seriously doubt I could meet another woman like her, if something happened.
That's probably my thinking too...I'll never meet someone like my husband and I haven't yet. And we were very different and yet I loved him, don't know why but I just did. Maybe the answer is to find a male companion but not one that lives with me. Someone who'll take me out to lunch or dinner, movies, etc. Then do some honey do's around the house...then goes home to his own place which would be in the mountains of Fresno where it's cooler. I actually dated this guy..but he died. And I gave him nothing in return but he enjoyed being with me I guess.
morning folks,its bucketing down outside grrrrrrrr,gonna have another coffee,and plan my day, enjoy your day