Since I was always very shy, I have never, ever been one of those girls who flirted with guys. Even when I was married to my first husband, I didn't really flirt with him. Everything was pretty serious back then. However, with Bobby, our relationship is just such an easygoing part of life, and I have become a decided flirt in my senior years . And...... I really enjoy it ! ! I think that keeping the romantic part of a relationship going is an important part of the marriage. I don't mean just having sex (although that part is awesome, too); but even the little things like holding hands when we are walking into a store, and hugs and kisses during the day. At night, I always tell Bobby that he is the most awesome husband in the whole world, and he will respond that I am the best wife. It is little things like this that put security in our world and help us to know how much we are loved. And it never fails to put a smile on Bobby's face when I am giving him a hug and then blow in his ear a little bit and go "woo-woo". What special ways do you flirt with your spouse to keep your marriage happy and exciting ?