Jesus did not start a referral service, He gave instructions what to do, and Jesus' Followers, Immersed in His Name, Set Apart (Ekklesia) from the world, do what Jesus Says. Note that it was said/published decades ago that "Americans" THROW AWAY enough food every year to feed the entire world! (how is that 'charitable' ? ) Yes. Living under a bridge in Seattle was one of the most peaceful times in life for me and others. We were not bulldozed or driven away or left hungry nor arrested, etc, like happens in the last 20 years in many cities. Actually, there is a better way, as Jesus Says To Do - and when Jesus' Followers Immersed in His Name DO as He Says to DO, there is great and abundant thanksgiving in and throughout the whole neighborhood for all the overflowing extravagant and selfless generosity. Of course, this is so rare, people of the world rarely see this.
My mantra, "save for a rainy day". It may not mean a lot to some, but it did to me. I would say, for the most part, you are on your own.
Families have been dis-assembled since before the Nazi plan in Germany was put in place, using evolution and other pagan beliefs to take away any sense of honoring parents.