I Apologize

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  1. Chrissy Cross

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    I was just going through my old conversations on here and reread a few and it saddens me that I'm no longer friends with so many of you.

    I've apologized privately to a few already but now I just want to say I'm sorry to the rest...you know who you are...

    You don't have to forgive me or even acknowledge this but I just felt like doing it after reading the nicer PM's.

    I always seem to get caught up in some forum drama and it's just not worth it.
     
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    Nothing is ever all one-sided, and when a fresh start can be made, I think that is a great thing, @Chrissy Cross . That is why we have that wonderful saying "let bygones be bygones".
    I have been in some of those dramas with you, and I also apologize for things that should have stayed in my head and not come out of my mouth. I am glad we can work past it and be friends again, and I hope that all of the bridges here can be mended.
    Hugs and Prayers.....
     
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    Thanks Yvonne and in the scheme of things, these forum games and spats aren't good for anybody. I truely wish I never got involved in any of it...I know it can't be taken back what's been said but I just want to move on.

    I can understand if not everybody agrees with me or forgives me but it's all behind me now.

    This isn't something that just hit me today because I've thought a long time about it but today when I looked at some of the good times and good conversations I've had with many of you I felt it was time to say something.
     
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    thank you,your forgiven
     
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  5. Chrissy Cross

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    :p
     
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    You know @Chrissy Cross I was just thinking not so long ago how far you and I have come from the "clashes" we used to have...and thanking God for the friendship I have felt with you for quite awhile now. :)
     
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    Thanks Babs! I feel the same way. Hope you're enjoying Florida!

    To be honest, I don't know what gets into me sometimes, I'm really a nice person in real life. :)

    I did have a meltdown last year starting with my mom's death and then just one thing after another happening but that's no excuse.
     
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    You are a good person Chrissy but when we go through loss, etc. it affects every part of us and when we are hurting it is easy to say and often do things that we wouldn't normally do. I want you to know that for everytime we butted heads I always forgave you if you said something that hurt me and I hope you forgave me when I hurt you too. After all this time I have found we actually have more in common than we do in differences. :) And I do believe you are a very nice person in real life...and here on the Forum too. :)

    Florida with my family is wonderful! :)
     
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    Nice post Chrissy - being sincere in remorse can mend bridges
    Being hurt, well it can take time to recover from that - just keep on the road you are now on
    and all will be well :)
     
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    I actually slept through the night without waking up even once, I haven't slept that well in ages, I conked out at 8:30 and slept straight through til 4:00 AM. I usually wake up every couple hours.

    Probably has nothing to do with my apology but I did feel so much better yesterday after writing my post. :)

    I also had such good dreams....guess it's good to get rid of a lot of negativity!
     
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    It sure is :)
     
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    :) sweet, @Chrissy Cross but doubt you were that bad. Poop happens, we are all past grown,we should know how to respect and accept a person who occasionally has a melt down or a rant or two. :p
     
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    I wasn't very nice but I'm not going to go into the details....that's not what my post is about.

    I just want to apologize, if it's accepted ...great. If not, I understand.
     
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    Well i did not know you then..so you got a clean slate with me:D
     
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    Lol...one of the few! :)
     
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