LOLO.. @Beth Gallagher - I guess unsavory. I cant include everything in these cases I list. Also folks no right or wrong answers, just what would you do? Given the facts that are listed I guess.
I'll sit this one out. I won't watch a 7 minute video. That being said, grandmothers don't get a pass for having no boundaries. (I hope that was the right answer.)
Your one and only grown ,married, child -with none of her own is a very private person. She refuses to let you into her life as to how things are going, any plans they may have. Just normal everyday things that most parents would wonder and ask about. She can be defensive quick ,if asked the wrong question, The husband only confides in his mother about everything. So do you continue to feel left out of things, or approach with caution both of them asking why your being left from mundane information.? P.S. these are real life cases,gathered from various sources.