Pessimist. Probably because of a hard life, most of which was spent on the proverbial 'wrong side of the tracks', where optimist/idealist drivel is soon enough laid to rest, rose-coloured glasses are shattered, and blinders are ripped away by a double-dose of harsh reality.
True but doesn’t a pessimist balk at trying because he knows it’s for naught? On a positive note; For me, it’s always about success and perchance the goal isn’t attained, the lesson learned is always an asset.
@Bobby Cole Nah, not at all! I am a terrible pessimist, and yet have set my mind to succeed in a variety of endeavors, and did so. But, that occasional intrusion was always there to support my pessimism. Frank
What's that old saying...something like 'He who expects nothing is never disappointed, but sometimes pleasantly surprised'?
Unfortunately, Murphy’s law does exist and is living well in the very hearts and minds of men. Fortunately for me, the knowledge of having the ability to fail is a successful endeavor unto itself. A person who doesn’t expect misfortune cannot truly appreciate his fortune once he’s found it. Call it: huh? What did he just say?
As a pessimist, I do balk at longshots, and where the odds are definitely stacked against me. I think it's more a matter of hope for the best, but expect (and be prepared for) the worst case scenario.
There is one way to find out very fast. Tell the person I hope you get what you deserve. An optimist will say good it is about time. The pessimist will look worried and say I hope not.
It's been about 3 years since I had an eye exam...guess I'll be making an appointment with my Optimist. HAL
I don't think I'm either a pessimist or an optimist. Try to make choices based on how likely I think various outcomes are, and how serious the worst possible outcome is. If something good (or bad) happens, most times I think it's just good (or bad) luck. Although you might have runs of good and bad luck at times, I think it tends to even out in the long run.