An ongoing abstract bone of contention! This question comes to my mind every time I find coincidences happening in my life. When I say coincidences, i mean, when you put two and two together you wonder how, why when and what?? I feel this is what I am paying for staying single. Initially, I sought to find companionship, but came up with the wrong connections. In fact, after paying into a well known site I was in conversation with someone and strangely that connection just got cut off and another person came on the screen. At first I thought nothing about it. Later I realized my computer and life was totally compromised after several of these happenings. I also noticed there were a lot of coincidences happening and these involved my close friends of more than 40 years. I broke my head to analyze what am I doing wrong or who have I offended. These coincidences also involve family. The worst part is that no one will tell me who is that ghost out there who thinks they are covering my back. Sometimes I feel, yes, I am covered but at other times I feel it's not fair, I am an adult and I should be able to take care of myself. Especially, when the coincidences get out of hand. This has interfered with my relationship with my friends, family and unknown people who I try to interact with. The only thing I can fathom is that it has to be someone in power with access to high technology who is able to inflitrate into systems no layman could. Someone who is doing it off the record of his or her position.!!!