Ever had a friend or family member that refused to understand something you wanted them to understand? No matter how and why you are telling them, they simply refuse to understand. My wife's older sister is exactly that way! Thing is, my wife likes "keeping the peace" so she doesn't say much or anything. To a point, I wish I was that way, honestly. Now, the problem: As all of you know, it turns out that Henderson, Nevada isn't for us, for some excellent reasons (to us). After a visit to northwestern Nevada, we will make the decision to move there or not, but the odds are very in favor of us moving there. All we know is that we don't like desert living among other things. We both miss mountain wildlife, a much smaller population and slower lifestyle. The older sister was totally in favor of us moving to Henderson, because we'd be closer to where she lives. BUT, she totally dislikes hearing that we want to move further away from her. She truly doesn't understand what we like or want. My wife has told me to not tell her anymore about us moving and move. Once we make the move, call her and tell her where we are. Comments/Suggestions? And, not moving isn't going to happen.