Well, Silvia, you definitely wouldn't get along with me! I have a very humorous side that includes sarcasm and sometimes arrogant. My wife loved my personality from the very time we met. She has told people, "not a boring time in our home". Now, my wife's sister (my SIL) can be/is a very, very serious person. All of her friends are the same way. She doesn't catch on to a joke very easily and will, at times, say to me over the phone "that wasn't a nice thing to say about someone" and I will then say "I was just joking" or "it's just the truth". I see the bad and good in many people, including myself. To me, you sound a lot like my SIL.........a very, very serious lady. And, that is ok, but that also means that, like my SIL, you can be offended to easily.