This is the quote that I find offensive - 'Not a fan of a anyone who sulks. Get over yourself ' (status) Whoever it was aimed at, not my cuppa Lets leave it there, we are just bringing the forum down
@Patsy Faye I never read anyone else's status post as these are just ramblings. You are clearly upset. Why did you not say at the time? If you remember you picked me up about using quotes in a thread. I just giggled about it. I think it's the mods job to comment on status posts. Apologies if you were offebded @Pasty Faye that remark is not aimed at you, how on earth did you come to that conclusion. I am indeed not a fan of anyone who sulks. It was just random thoughts. I am amazed a remark on my profile page, not even a thread has ended up by me bringing the forum down. Why did you not raise the issue at the time.
You're a clever girl, I'll give you that Seen it all before on the forum I left to come here The reason I didn't mention it before is that I wanted to get past it but I kept seeing the remark. Like I said, it didn't have to be about me I have been here a year now at this forum, never had a problem until recently You carry on as you are Honey, I will give myself a break I do apologise to anyone that my posts have affected
This thread has evolved, revolved, kinda regurgitated at times, but I must call attention to the fact that it urged @Patsy Faye to respond in more than one sentence!
Do I need to be more selective in my choice of material? WTH wants to discuss butterflies, wind direction, neighbors, and the like. I have to be careful. No one ever wins the "popularity" event more than once. Look at Hillary....... Frank
I am completely baffled by Patsy' s comment. If you look at my thread content have I ever been rude to anyone . I am open tell you about life in a funway I thought that is what a forum was about. Perhaps that irks people I do not know. I have done these things but later in my life. Which I feel proud of. I am clever Patsty I happen to have a degree in behavioural psychology it proved useful in nursing geriatric patients. You say things were ok until I became a member. I find that a bizarre comment. I am not letting you trap me into making further comment. If Ken is unhappy I would rather have his input.
Me? I find myself wondering why I bother since there are so many people who are more interested in fighting than in anything else. I can't keep up with it, nor do I want to. For some, when they come here from another forum, it's like moving to another town to get away from problems, but bringing the problems along. Everyone thinks they are in the right, or that it's someone else's job to figure out who's right and who's wrong, and to do something about it. None of it makes a bit of sense to me, nor do I particularly want it to. It's all crazy stuff, and I think it's fair to say that most of us would just rather not be a part of it.
@Ken Anderson - you're right of course Ken and no one should feel they have to get mixed up in a squabble Its between two people. A solution has been found to get things back on track, so I hope this is the end of it If I had thought of it earlier. the above would never have occurred and for that I am sorry
So this does not affect the other forum members and drag on. I have already apologised to Pasty and mean that. I feel as though I no longer have the heart to post further at present as most of you know I am undergoing investigations and not in a position to undergo stress. I am still puzzled by these turn of everyone events as Patst was very friendly at the start. Have a great Christmas and New Year everyone
Sometimes, we all say something that is taken wrong by someone else, and it is good that you two have at least talked about this. I believe that both of you have been hurt, and that neither one meant to hurt the other. It is kind of like accidentally stepping one someone's toe. It still hurts; but it helps to know that the other person was not intending to step on your toe. Sometimes, that toe was already sore before it was stepped on , and then it hurts worse; but give each other a virtual hug, make up and be friends again. Both of you are wonderful and caring people, and I would hate to have either one of you feel that you need to step away from the forum.