Scientifically, unless humans have managed to evolve into an asexual being, no one can. But, there are those who believe themselves to be neither male nor female and distinguish themselves with a couple of pronouns no one understands but themselves. ergo….they have produced their own reality.
Not sure what you are saying but it looks ok I guess. One of my favorite quotes from Ayn, " You can ignore reality, but you can't ignore the consequences of ignoring reality." A.Rand
"Let it come but let me not be there to witness it". Old Jewish saying I just heard studying this new war going on, and can sure relate to it at times.
Sometimes you have to hug people you do not like…. so you know how big to dig the hole in your back yard.