I want my Honey to be happy. It wouldn't be fair for me to be joy filled in heaven and not want the same thing for the spouse I left behind.
Interesting topic and even more interesting opinions My husband died 9/11/19 but if I had gone first I absolutely would have wanted him to remarry or at least have a special someone if the opportunity came along. . Why would I not want him to be happy with someone else when I wasn't around? As for me, I think if I am meant to meet someone I will and I am sure my late husband would be just fine with the idea. I do not think I would ever remarry but live together for at least part of the time sounds ok.
Absolutely! Life goes on; why shouldn't his? That said, I've been widowed twice and there won't be another time. However, I felt the same when I was married.